FRIENDS or NOT FRIENDS???

I am going to tell you the difference between a real friend and friend that's not a real friend:

This is a true story because I have been through it! SO take my ADVICE on THIS!


I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH THIS MY WHOLE LIFE NOW I AM DONE WTIH FAKE FRIENDS. I AM NOT GOING TO LET THEM HURT ME ANYMORE!!! WELL YOU GOT THE IDEA NOW OF WHAT A REAL AND FAKE FRIEND IS. I WILL TELL YOU I AM DONE WITH FAKE FRIENDS.

I AM NOT GOING TO BE FRIENDS THAT ARE FAKE. I AM GOING TO SURROUND MYSELF AROUND REAL FRIENDS THAT CAN SAY POSITIVE STUFF TO ME AND NOT TEAR MY HEART APART. I CAN SAY I WILL PROMISE MYSELF THIS TIME THAT I AM GOING TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH REAL FRIENDS AND NOT FAKE FRIENDS. I ALWAYS BREAK THE PROMISE BUT I AM GOING TO KEEP THE PROMISE ANY FRIENDS THAT ARE FAKE I AM GOING TO TELL THEM I CANT BE YOUR FRIEND SORRY!

THATS ABOUT IT! I AM ALSO GOING TO SURROND MYSELF BY FRIENDS THAT GOD WANTS ME TO. I AM DONE WILL FAKES.PEOPLE WHO BRING YOU DOWN ARE DREAM KILLERS AND WITH THEM IN YOUR LIFE YOU WONT GET ANYWERE I AM DROPPING ALL MY FAKE FRIENDS AND I AM GOING TO GET ME SOME REAL FRIENDS AND I AM GOING TO SOMEWERE IN LIFE AND THEY CANT STOP ME.

P.S. IF YOU HAVE ADVICE PLEASE COMMENT BELOW THIS BLOG. THANK U!!!!

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A REAL FRIEND IS SOMEONE WHO:
A real friend is someone who's always be on your side,someone eho will wipe away your tears when you are hurt deep inside,someone who will share your laughter and happiness.
I think real friend have real feeling,a real friend for me is someone who cheers me up when i feel down.a real friend is absolutely priceless,a real friend forgives and helps you become a better person.
A real friend is someone who you are first comfotable with, someone who you cna tell a secret and they will KEEP that secret try (them out) and see what happens.A real friend is the firt person who will be there when your Mo or Dad dies supporting you being there for you.A real friend is someone you can depend on FOR ANYTHNIGthere are so many ways to describe a real friend youwill no tho when you find that person.
someone you trust, respect, admire. Th feeling is mutual. There is great sense of honesty. He or she is someone you actually love but not in a physical sense. That in my opinion is the kind of relationship one should strive to achieve prior to developing a different kind of love,, the physical love if it is with someone of the opposite gender.
Someone who:- will stick by you in the tough times of your life- is not afraid to tell you the truth- LISTENS not just hears you- respects you- accepts you for YOU- you can trust 100%- has the same value system as you- will not talk poorly about you, and will not allow anyone esle to- will keep everything you talk about confident- will not gossip about you- will not kick you when you are down- encourages you and supports the good decisions you make- you can laugh and cry with.
I think the real meaning of a real friend is someone you know you can trust to be there for you. and I don't mean like someone who's always going to be there to pick you up from the airport,or someone you can share your little secrets with! a real friend is someone who you can look up to and feel like no matter what jam your in or what problem you need solving your real friend or friends will always be there. the best way to describe characteristics of a real friend is to say that a real friend will not always agree with you, their less perfect then you are,but they will always try to make sure your safe. how to be a real friend is not being there 24/7 your not Superman, just don't play the whole out of sight out of mind game if you don't stay in close contact, just remember your friend,a person who you can COMPLETELY trust and like a sister/brother. Very close together.

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A FRIEND THAT ISNT REAL IS SOMEONE WHO:


In our lifetime, we may have many friends, but the list of "real" friends will probably be very small. "Friend" comes with a loose definition, as there are different types we call friend. Each can have placement in our lives, but in a different way. You may have a friend who you have fun
with, but would never feel comfortable telling your deepest secrets to. Then there is the friend who you can trust with anything; the type that walks beside you in life, a kindred spirit. What I consider to be the difference in fake friends and real friends...Fake: Asks for favors often, but never offers to do favors for you. In fact, they may refuse or feel burdened if they do anything for you Real: Will offer to help before you even ask and if you do ask, they help out, willingly and without resentment Fake: Talks about you behind your back Real: If they have a problem with you, they discuss it, face to face, and in a respectful manner Fake: One-dimensional. They see only their needs and is oblivious to needs of others Real: They are in-tune enough to sense your pain, your needs and are supportive Fake: Full of excuses for why they have no time for you - often only coming around when they want something and that something isn't YOU Real: Wants to make time for you because they genuinely enjoy being with you and "choose" to nurture the friendship Fake: Their actions don't back up their words Real: Their actions are proportionate to their words, instilling trust and dependability Fake: Makes fun of your imperfections Real: Overlooks your imperfections and if you choose to improve yourself, they are encouraging and supportive. They may even join in. Fake: Will try to lead you down a destructive path, not caring where it takes youReal: Will encourage you to go down a constructive path. They will be by your side as you do. Fake: Will drain your energy dry Real: Will enhance your energy Fake: Asks to borrow money often and never pays you back Real: Only asks to borrow money if it's a true need and always pays back in a prompt manner. Willing to lend you money, if need be Fake: Cuts you down Real: Builds you up.

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